Ihya Ramadhan # 1

assalamualaikum...............

niat pada bulan ramadhan ni setiap hari jumaat nak buat satu entry/ tazkirah sempena bulan yang mulia ni...paling utama adalah untuk menghidupkan semangat ramadhan untuk diri sendiri....dan kalau boleh dapat juga dikongsi dan memberi manfaat kepada pembaca blog ni.....insyaallah...alhamdulillah ari ni nak berkongsi mengenai apa yang patut kita lakukan semasa bulan ramadhan....checklist ni patut dah kluar sebelum ramadhan tapi still boleh dijadikan pedoman...semoga kita sama2 mendapat kebaikan darinya dan amal ibadah kita diterima Allah....insyaallah

CHECK LIST AMALAN DI BULAN RAMADHAN

1. Mengucapkan tahniah (Selamat datang Ramadhan atau Selamat menyambut Ramadhan.

2. Niat sebulan bagi malam yang pertama dan selanjutnya niat untuk hari-hari.

3. Sembahyang Isyak berjamaah di masjid/surau.

4. Solat Tarawikh 20 rakaat.

5. Tadarus membaca bersemak dan berturut-turut juzuk.

6. Tidur malam membaca 4 ayat terakhir Surah Al Kahfi supaya dikejutkan bangun tepat jam 4.00 pagi.

7. Bangun jam 4.00 pagi dan setengah jam untuk Qiamullail ringan (Solat Tahjud, Solat Taubat dan Solat Hajat)

8. Jam 4.30 pagi kaum ibu masak sahur.

9. Jam 5.00 pagi/5.15 pagi makan sahur.

10.Jangan tidur sesudah sahur.

11.Solat Subuh berjemaah di Masjid.

12.Tadarus pendek.

13.Matahari tinggi segalah, lakukan solat Isyraq.

14.Menjalankan kerja harian dan menjaga pancaindera.

15.Jam 11.00 pagi tunaikan Solat Dhuha.

16.Lakukan Solat Kafarah Baul 2 rakaat. Rakaat pertama selepas Fatihah baca Surah Al     Kautsar 7 kali dan rakaat kedua selepas Fatihah baca Surah Ikhlas 7 kali.

17.Jam 12.00 tengahari tidur, niat tidur waktu Qailulah (ganti jaga satu jam diwaktu sahur)

18.Solat Zuhur berjemaah.

19.Tadarus pendek.

20.Sebelah petang kaum ibu menyediakan berbuka petang.

21.Solat Asar berjemaah di Masjid.

22.Jika masa petang jangan gunakan untuk bersiar-siar atau menonton TV yang melibatkan kemaksiatan. Sebaik-baiknya digunakan untuk mengikuti majlis-majlis ilmu atau berdoa kerana waktu itu amat mustajab.

23. Berbuka dengan ala kadar iaitu minuman yang belum dipanas oleh api atau dengan buah kurma atau buah tempatan.

24.Segera Solat Maghrib di Masjid.

25.Makan malam bersama keluarga.

26.Bersiap sedia untuk ke masjid menunaikan Solat Isyak dan Tarawikh secara berjemaah.

KELEBIHAN-KELEBIHAN YANG LAIN

1. Menghadiri majlis ilmu setiap langkah di beri pahala ibadah sunah setahun.

2. Mengekali berjemaah diberi balasan dengan disediakan sebuah bandar khas di Syurga.

3. Membuat hubungan baik kepda kedua ibu bapa, Allah pandang dengan penuh kasih sayang.

4. Isteri taat kepada suami diberi pahala seperti pahala Asiah dan Mariam.

5. Sesiapa yang menyampaikan hajat saudaranya disampaikan 1000 hajatnya di akhirat.

Mengurangkan berat badan di dalam menjalani ibadah Ramadhan

1. Sebelum puasa timbang badan

2. Kawal berbuka puasa

3. Pastikan semakin lama menunaikan ibadah puasa akan semakin kurang berat badan

4. Elakan daripada makan berlebihan

RANCANG PENINGKATAN IBADAH RAMADHAN

1. Sepuluh hari yang pertama adakan muhasabah amalan.

2. Sepuluh hari yang kedua, pastikan keimanan bertambah kuat dan selaraskan dengan sempena Nuzul Quran.

3. Sepuluh hari yang ketiga kuatkan azam untuk beramal di malam Al Qadr :

i. Dengan melakukan Solat Maghrib,Isyak dan Tarawikh berjemaah.

ii. Atau ditambah dengan Solat Subuh berjemaah

iii. Duduk dengan air sembahyang dan baca Al-Quran, Ayat Kursi, Surah Al Baqarah terakhir (Amanarrasul) , Surah Az-zalzalah,     Suraah Al Kafirun, Surah al Ikhlas dan Surah Yasin. iv. Bagi kaum ibu yang uzur, baca zikir.

v. Bangun pukul 1.00 pagi tunaikan Solat Sunat Wuduk, Solat Hajat, Solat Tasbih, Solat Taubat, Solat Istikarah.

vi. Jika sedang beramal, badan terasa sejuk dan terharu maka inilah tanda-tanda mendapat Lailatul Qadar.

SELAMAT TINGGAL RAMADHAN

i. Pastikan Tarawikh terakhir

ii. Ucapkan Selamat Tinggal Ramadhan dengan penuh terharu dan berdoa semoga dipertemukan sekali lagi dengan Ramadhan yang akan datang.

Bukan Kisah Dongeng..........

"Seorang teman hidup yang sempurna tidak semestinya jadi seseorang yang sempurna.....
memadailah jika hatinya cukup ikhlas mengasihi dan menyayangimu...
dan menerimamu sebagaimana dirimu seadanya...
dia seseorang yang akan bersamamu di saat suka dan menangis bersamamu di kala duka....
dia juga akan memaafkan segala kesalahanmu walau sebesar mana pun dan sekerap manapun kamu mengulanginya....
dan kebahagiaan padanya adalah dengan melihat dirimu gembira 
walaupun kegembiraan itu bukan miliknya.....
teman hidup yang sebegitu sangat sukar ditemui namun bukanlah mustahil untuk dimiliki....
jika kamu cukup bertuah menemukannya dalam hidup yang singkat ini, hargailah dia....
kerana percayalah....jika kamu mensia- siakan cintanya dan kehilangannya kerana keangkuhan dan keegoanmu sendiri, 
mungkin kamu tidak akan bertemu lagi dengan seseorang yang akan menyintai dan mengasihimu sebanyak mana dia menyintai dan mengasihimu dalam kehidupan ini...
Teman hidup yang menyempurnakan dirimu adalah 
anugerah Allah paling bermakna dalam hidup ini, 
hargailah mereka....."


~  Farahliza Isa  ~

Please stop dis cruelty.....

hi semua...rasa terpanggil nak share something yg tgh hangat di facebook sekarang terutamanya di wall aktivis2 dan pecinta haiwan...sila lihat video ini (hanya utk the brave heart...yg cemeng cam aku elok xyah tengok la)...so saper2 yg xnak tengok, video ni yg dirakamkan cctv di serdang adalah mengenai kekejaman sorang manusia terhadap anak2 kucing, dikatakan si bodoh ni menyeksa, menendang, memijak, memukul ngn payung dan seterusnya membunuh anak kucing...apa yg x diketahuinya semua perbuatannya dapat dirakamkan oleh cctv yang ada di kawasan tersebut..maybe dia pon x expect ader cctv kt situ...dan akibat keje bodoh dn x berperikemanusiaan yg dia buat tu, video dia menyeksa dan membunuh anak2 kucing tu disiarkan dgn meluas di internet menyebabkan kemarahan semua pecinta2 haiwan...dn dia diburu mcm serial killer..hehehe, pdn muka, mmg xder otak!! heeee....geram aku

to be honest...aku sendiri pon x tengok lagi video nih...serius...aku x tahan nak membayangkan penderitaan yg dialami oleh si comel tu, takut terbyg2 n x boleh tido lak nnt...klau korang berani korang tengok la n judge by urself....betapa kejamnya seorang 'binatang' yang bernama manusia.... :(((

pompuan tomboy (pompuan tuuu....sedihhh!!) yg digelar 
'The Serdang Cat Killer' ni akan hadir di press conference besok  

(Ahad, 6 March 2011) di Seri Kembangan assemblyman Ean Yong Hin Wah's service center utk wat explanation mengenai kekejaman yg dia wat kt ank2 kucing tu...alamatnya di 1121-1B, Jln Sekolah, Kg Baru Seri Kembangan...police report akan dibuat selepas press conference tu dan aduan rasmi kepada jabatan perkhidmatan haiwan pada hari isnin....serve her right!! :)

saper2 yg duduk berdekatan sila la datang memberikan sokongan dan menyatakan pendirian tegas kita terhadap penganiayaan haiwan...kita x boleh bertolak ansur terhadap manusia yang bersikap kejam begini...undang2 negara kita pun masih longgar mengenai perkara2 ni, bkn mcm di luar negara...mereka dh ada undang2 yang ketat dan hukuman yang keras terhadap sesiapa yang melakukan penganiayaan terhadap haiwan...kalaulah di malaysia pun dpt dibuat mcm tu.....tapi aku bangga sbb sekarang dh ramai yg sedar tentang hak2 terhadap haiwan ni, byk group2, persatuan2, aktivis dan pecinta2 haiwan yg emerged utk mempertahankan hak thadap haiwan sekarang dan aku bangga menjadi salah seorang dr mereka, wlaupun sumbangan masih kecil dan x seberapa aku harap satu hari nanti semua org di malaysia ni akan membuka mata hati mereka utk menyayangi haiwan dan melayan haiwan ngn adil...haiwan adalah makhluk bernyawa, meskipun mereka x dapat berkata2 tapi mereka punye perasaan dan perlu disayangi...pd kawan2 pecinta haiwan sekalian, teruskan usaha anda memperjuangkan hak utk haiwan2 comel ini ok :)

mcmaner la seorang manusia sanggup menyeksa dan membunuh budak2 meow secumil ni kan,...... 

ape la ader dalam otak dia agakknyer???

........dunia dh nk kiamat agaknyer..... hmmm

update kat sini:

http://malaysiandogsdeservebetter.blogspot.com/2011/03/serdang-kitten-killer.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed:+MalaysianDogsDeserveBetter+(Malaysian+Dogs+Deserve+Better)

dis psycho really2 sickkk!!!

The Donkey in the Well

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well that the farmer had accidentally left uncovered. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway, so it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

With everything that has happen to us, we can either feel sorry for ourself or treat what has happened as a gift.....

Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to us from growing...we have to choose!!

Remember five simple rules to be HAPPY :

Free your heart from hatred 

Free your mind from worries 

Live simply and appreciate what you have

Give more

Expect less

Now, most people think that's the end, but it isn't.

The donkey later came back and bit the shit out of the farmer who had tried to bury him. The gash from the bite got infected, and the farmer eventually died in agony from septic shock.

So the real moral from today's lesson?

When you do something wrong and try to cover your ass, it always comes back to bite you...it's karma.....Setiap perkara jahat yang dilakukan pasti mendapat balasan daripada Allah...kalau bukan di dunia, di akhirat nanti....tapi sekarang balasn Allah sangat cepat....kt dunia lagi dah dibayar'cash'....kan

Express it !!.....

Don't be hesitate to express your feeling, and let all stupid thing to fools up ur mind....u'll lose the opportunity of doing it, n when one day u realize it maybe it will be too late...is there someone in your life, anyone, that would love to hear or needs to hear special words

of love, encouragement or support from you? Is there someone that deserves to hear the words and not have to "just know" how you feel?

Life speeds by and leaves many un-said words in its wake. The ground is littered with dead

intentions of words not spoken. Again, people don't know how you feel until you tell them how you feel.

I'll bet there is someone you can call, visit or write to that once done, would make their day as well as yours and possibly contribute to long term peace in your life as well as theirs.

Don't wait. Do it now. There is still time for you.

Time passes, all too quickly for all of us.

Blink and your best friend is gone. Hesitate and your parents are gone. Pause and your spouse, children and sibling are gone. Negative? Depressing? Sad?

Painful thoughts, yes, but theses are nothing compared to the lifelong regrets that you will suffer with words left unspoken.

Don't wait until it is too late. I am sure there is someone you need to call today to tell them how special they are and that you love them. 

Don't wait another minute. Time is running out.

Go and express your feeling... :)

Soul Mates

We first met when I was 14.

I was crossing the road, and you saw me.

You told your brother to stop the car, right there, in the middle of the road, came down, looked at me, smiled, gave me your card and said "Call me".

I wanted to, but I didn't.

The second time we met, was when I was 15.

I was with my cousins that day, watching the squatter houses getting torn down, and you were there.

You stood on the huge rock, and looked down at me.

I felt someone staring at me, so I turned to look.. and there you were, smiling at me but I looked away.

When I was about to leave, I saw you walking my way, but then the fireman that was there, came over to talk to me just a few seconds before you.. you looked at me, turned and left.

A few months later, we spoke for the very first time.

Yes, I decided to call you and our conversation lasted 2 hours.

We told each other our likes, dislikes, and found out that we had a lot in common.

The next week, I was walking back home, and I saw you on your scooter. With a girl. And you were holding her hand so tightly, it was as though you were never going to let go.

I reached home... sat down.. and all of a sudden...pain rushed through my entire body.. but I didn't cry.. all I could do was think to myself, why does this hurt so much? why did seeing him on his scooter with a girl hurt me so badly? why?

Then I realized.

Even after the first time we met, when you gave me your card, i couldn't stop thinking of you, and that smile of yours.

Did I fall in love? Maybe.

After that day, I saw you with her, everyday and so, I did what was best. I moved on.

5 years went by without thinking of you. I literally managed to block you out of my mind and my life, and life, was going pretty swell for me.

College started, new friends were made, and a loving boyfriend of 3 years was in my life. Life was a bliss.

Semester break came along, and I decided to head home for the month.. and one day, during a walk, I saw you... and you saw me.. you ran across the road and said "Hi!".. all i could do was smile.

Why couldn't I just turn and walk away? It was like my feet were glued to the ground the minute you smiled.

You asked how I was, and I said great.

The next question was "Boyfriend?" I answered "Yes".. you said "Oh" and walked away like you did everytime you heard something you didn't like.

I called out to you and said we can be friends and you smiled and agreed.

We started hanging out a lot. Movies, drinks, surfing, live band shows. You called me up one evening and said to come over to the usual place. i told you I'd be there in 10.

When i arrived, you were up on stage.. That was a normal thing, since you were in a band. You sang Faithfully by Journey and at the end, you said that it was for me.

I froze.

What were you thinking?

what was I thinking?

I had a boyfriend.

Then I snapped back to my reality.

What was happening?

We said we'd be friends. But.. did something happen along the way?

When I woke up that night, I found you next to me. I got out of bed, on to the balcony, and had a cigarette. Shit. I had done something I swore never to do. cheat. Then you came out, and we had a huge argument. the next thing you did, made me blow up.

You called my boyfriend. and told him everything.

He left me. I left you. you sent me a text saying "I hate you", i replied with "Thank you for coming into my life and ruining everything and for making me so blinded that I actually slept with you"

I never heard from you again.

All I could think of after that was what the hell was i thinking? What in the world made me sleep with you? why did I throw away a perfectly good relationship for you? but I didn't put the blame on you. I blamed myself. for being so stupid.

10 years after that day, i'm happily married, with a beautiful daughter, and by the power of facebook, you found me. I accepted your friend request and then while chatting one day, you asked me, what happened to us.

You told me you never forgot me, how my hair smelt after being washed, how I laughed, how I made you happy, how you felt complete when I was next to you.

i told you I never forgot you either. especially your smile.

You said let's run away together. I said no. you're married. I'm married. that's the way it should be.

you said it wasn't.

you said we were soul-mates.

All i said was

"We are soul-mates that weren't meant to end up together. If we had started at the very beginning, we might have been together for a lifetime"

you said maybe in our next lifetime.

i told you that in our next lifetime, when you stop the car in the middle of the road, don't give me your card. just say "Will you be mine".

You agreed but said "I'll just say will you marry me"

We laughed.

Yes. we are soul-mates, we're not together, but we never forgot one another.

thanks to... leloveimage.blogspot

(dis one will always be my favorite...:) )

Antara Ulat Bulu dan Kupu- Kupu :)

'Aku minta kepada ALLAH setangkai bunga segar, DIA beri kaktus berduri. Aku minta kupu-kupu, diberikan ulat bulu..Aku sedih dan kecewa..Namun kini, kaktus itu bebunga, indah sekali..dan ulat itupun telah menjadi kupu-kupu yang cantik. Itulah jalan ALLAH, indah pada masaNYA. ALLAH tidak memberi apa yang kita HARAPKAN, tetapi DIA memberi apa yang kita PERLUKAN. Kadang-kadang kita sedih, terluka..tapi jauh di atas segalanya DIA telah mengatur yang TERBAIK untuk kehidupan kita'

Amin, Syukur Alhamdulillah......

Seekor Anjing Bernama 'Faith'

Ia dilahirkan dengan 3 kaki - 2 kaki belakang yang sihat dan satu kaki hadapan yang cacat yang langsung tidak dapat digunakan dan harus dipotong. Ia tidak boleh berjalan sewaktu dilahirkan. Ibunya sendiri tidak menjaganya kerana ia tidak mahukannya. Ia disisih dan diabaikan. Pemilik pertamanya pun beranggapan yang ia tidak akan dapat bertahan hidup. Oleh sebab itu dia mengambil keputusan untuk mematikan- put to sleep.

Pada masa itulah peiliknya sekarang, Jude Stringfellow telah hadir membawa sinaran yang baru  dan ingin membelanya. Dia berazam akan mengajar dan melatih anak anjing itu untuk berjalan. apa yang difikirkan ialah kita hanya perlukan sedikit harapan - all we need is a little hope...

Oleh sebab itu, dia telah menamakannya 'Faith'. 

Pada mulanya dia meletakkan Faith diatas papan luncur air dan membiarkannya merasakan pergerakan air di bawak kakinya. Kemudian dia menggunakan mentega kacang yang diletak di atas sudu sebagai umpan dan ganjaran kerana berdiri tegak dan melompat. Anjing- anjing peliharaannya yang lain juga memberikan dorongan dan pertolongan kepada Faith agar ia dapat berjalan. Menakjubkan, dalam masa hanya 6 bulan sahaja Faith telah belajar mengimbangkan badannya diatas 2 kaki dan melompat untuk bergerak ke hadapan. Selepas menjalani latihan lanjut di atas salji, Faith sekarang dapat berjalan seperti manusia...

Faith sangat suka berjalan- jalan sekarang. Walau kemana sahaja ia pergi ia akan menarik perhatian sesiapa sahaja. Faith sekarang sangat terkenal dan pernah beberapa kali muncul di media- media massa dan di rancangan televisyen. Faith juga mempunyai sebuah buku bertajuk "With a little faith" yang diterbitkan mengenai kisah hidupnya.

Pemiliknya Jude Stringfellow telah berhenti kerja sebagai guru dan bercadang membawa Faith mengelilingi dunia untuk memberi ceramah tentang "that even without a perfect body, one can have a perfect soul".

Dalam hidup akan terjadi banyak perkara yang tidak diingini. Mungkin ada seseorang yang berasa apa yang diharapkan tidak terjadi seperti yang dirancang dapat mengubah persepsi mereka dan memandangnya dari perspektif yang lain. Mungkin mesej ini dapat menukar cara berfikir yang baru dan segar kepada semua orang. Mungkin semua orang dapat lebih menghargai dan bersyukur dengan kehidupan masing- masing. 

"Life is the continual demonstration of the power of thinking positive and having faith"

"BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, NEVER LOSE FAITH"

gambar dan artikel diterjemah dari : sanctuaryofhope.blogspot

nak mintak tolong sikit bole tak...?

Assalamualaikum sahabat-sahabatku…
Nak minta tolong sikit boleh tak?

Tolong ingatkan saya,
Andai saya terlupakan tuhan,
Dalam kelapangan dan kesibukan,
Dalam kesenangan dan kesusahan.
Tolong ingatkan saya,
Jangan jadi anak derhaka,
Mak ayah dilupakan jangan,
Usah diluka hati dan perasaan.
Tolong ingatkan saya,
Dengarlan dan bacalah Al-Quran,
Tika radio penuh hiburan,
Tika tv penuh Hindustan.
Tolong ingatkan saya,
Di mana silamnya zahirku,
Jika aurat didedahkan disingkat,
Diketat dan dijarangkan.
Tolong ingatkan saya,
Jadilah sahabat yang baik,
Sentiasa memberi peringatan,
Sentiasa menerima teguran.
Tolong ingatkan saya,
Kalau bercinta biarlah keranaNya,
Dalam memilih utamakan iman,
Kelak ikatan dihindari syaitan.
Tolong ingatkan saya,
Hidup ini satu kembara,
Kutiplah mutiara dalam perjalanan,
Moga di sana menjadi bekalan.
Tolong ingatkan saya,
Diri ini milik Yang Kuasa kepadaNya,
Jiwa diserahkan segala-segala,
Dialah tumpuan.
Tolong ye ingatkan saya..

Kadangkala.......

Kadang kala ketika kita menangis
tiada orang nampak tangisan kita

Kadang kala ketika kita sedang menderita

tiada orang nampak derita kita

Kadang kala ketika kita risau

tiada org nampak kerisauan kita

Kadang kala ketika kita gembira

tiada org nampak kegembiraan kita

hanya kita saja yang tau diri kita sendiri
dan hanya kita jua

yang memahami diri kita sendiri.........

p/s : nape la aku ter'emo' lak ari ni...